Order Of Protection

You know something that pisses me off is when someone has an order of protection against someone and they aren't supposed to contact that person at all or have anyone to contact them. This person decides that they are gonna do a public post on facebook to the person(s) that they aren't supposed to talk to. How stupid can you get? That is still the same as contact the said person(s). It is still a violation of the order whether you think that it is or not. That is ok. It has been taken a picture of and documented because of this, that way when it comes to court date that is just one more thing against you. Keep that in mind, don't be freaking stupid like you are being. Yes I am confronting this person and they know who they are, but the good thing about this post is that I don't have to name any names due to the fact that they know exactly who they are. To this person we knew you were stupid, and now you just look more stupid. Smh.

Jobs?

What do you consider the perfect job? I have been looking at legit jobs on the internet that you can do from home. I applied to a job and had an interview today, but the stupid chat kicked me out and they wouldn't let me back in, so I hope that they let me retry it in a few days. I look at, at home jobs as being hard, but you can be your own boss. That is what I need due to the fact that I am bi polar and have mood swings. Being around a lot of people really gets to me. I hate going in anywhere that has tons of people. I also hope that I get this one part time job that I applied for, what is it you ask, well we will have to wait and see if I get it before I go and jinx myself. Jobs are hard to come by anymore, whether it be in the home, driving, or working in actual work setting. A lot of kids now a days think that jobs are so easy to get and that they don't have to do much work to get paid. Unless there is a job out there that I don't know about, it doesn't work that way.

I always ask my kids what do they want to be when they grow up, I have gotten many different responses as they have gotten older. 2 of my boys want high paying jobs and there is nothing wrong with that, they know that they have to apply themselves and make good grades unless they want to work at McDonalds or some other fast food restaurant. Sure fast food restaurants are good for beginners, but not a career. What job were you wanting when you were growing up? Did you achieve at being what you wanted to be? What is your ideal job? I always wanted to be a veterinarian, the year I was supposed to intern I ended up breaking my ankle so that threw me out of the running. I have still thought about going back to college to be a vet, but I am to old and to worn out to accomplish that goal. For now, I will just watch vet shows and animal cops shows. Hope you all have a great day!! Until next time!!

House Work

Is it me or does it seem like housework never ends. For me being a parent of 4, it seems like nothing ever stays done. Especially laundry and dishes. Anyone else feel as if their housework is never done? Do your kids help out or your significant other or do they just contribute to the mess? I took one day off and I be darned if I don't have at least 3 loads of clothes to wash as well as a load to get out of the dryer. I carried out 4 bags of garbage yesterday (bc it really needed to be done) and now I have 2 more bags to be carried out. I bet the garbage men really like me, not. I done some spring cleaning last week and carried out 13 bags of garbage. If the kids couldn't wear it, if it was stained, or if they didn't play with it (or pick it up) it got thrown away.

I know that sounds harsh but my kids know by now to pick up after themselves, and if they don't, it is gonna go in the garbage. I know you are probably thinking, if it can be used then why throw it away? Well the answer to that question is, I have gave to much stuff away as it is, and sold stuff as it is, and it is to much of a hassle. I have also donated a lot of things to charity events and yard sales and so on and so forth, I just don't have the time for all that mess anymore. I don't get any help so why not do it the way that I want to do it, for once? I know what you are thinking, that is a waste of money, I look at it like this, if the kids/husband, got their enjoyment out of it and then grew tired of it, then there is no point in keeping it around anymore, they know the same thing won't come back in the house so it won't be a waste of money to me anyways.

You may get what I am talking about, but then again you may not understand. The fact of the matter is, is that everyone is different. Things can't carry on the way that they are in my household, something has to change and I am making that change for everyone (since I am the only one that does anything around here). So, don't be afraid to show your thoughts or ideas. I am willing to listen/read every comment or email. Hope you all have great day! Until next time.

What To Talk About?

Wow, what to talk about? A lot has happened in over a year since I last posted. I had weight loss surgery on Jan 5, 2016, I have lost about a total of 122lbs in a little over a year. It is a very hard struggle and you do find yourself going back into old habits. Old habits are hard to break, but it can get done in time. I have tried to over come a few problems, mentally and physically. My husband and I have had our ups and downs, and now we rarely see each other. We do talk over the phone sometimes while he is at work, but when he comes home, I go to bed. We have his kids, right now. They have lived are wrecked childhood with their mom. We have had his oldest since November 21, 2016. We have had his youngest for going on 2 weeks now. We need all the prayers that we can get. There are a lot of things going on legally, and I pray that it all works out in our favor.

I am gonna try and start blogging more. I know that it has been awhile. I have had a few people tell me that I am typing articles. Lol. That is what a blog is for, a place to vent, and talk about things that is going on in your life and the problems that you face out in the world.